What to Expect from a Divorce Lawyer at Each Stage

Divorce is never easy, but understanding the process and knowing what to expect from your divorce lawyer can make the journey far less daunting. At Almy & Thomas, our experienced family law solicitors guide clients through each step with care, clarity and professionalism. Whether you’re considering separation, navigating divorce mediation, or finalising financial and child arrangements, we’re here to provide clear, practical family law advice and reliable representation every step of the way. Here is a guide to help you prepare for the process of divorce and how Almy & Thomas will help you navigate you throughout the process.

Stage 1: The Initial Consultation and Separation

The first step in any divorce process is seeking early legal advice. This is the stage that usually follows the emotional decision to separate, and it is vital to understand your options before taking formal action.

At Almy & Thomas, your initial meeting with one of our divorce lawyers is an opportunity to:

●      Discuss your circumstances confidentially.

●      Gain a clear understanding of your legal position.

●      Receive practical advice on the next steps, including whether reconciliation, mediation, or formal proceedings may be appropriate.

We will also explain the current no-fault divorce system in England and Wales, which allows couples to dissolve their marriage without assigning blame. The Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 has simplified the process to reduce conflict for both persons.

Stage 2: Filing the Divorce Application

Once you have decided to proceed with a divorce, your solicitor will help you prepare and submit the divorce application, which can be done by one party as the application or jointly as a couple. At Almy & Thomas, we ensure the application is accurately completed and all required documentation, such as marriage certificates, is provided, while carefully observing all deadlines and formalities. After submission, the court issues an acknowledgement of service, which the other party must complete within 14 days. Our team manages the process efficiently to avoid unnecessary delays and to ease the stress often associated with this stage.

Stage 3: Exploring Divorce Mediation and Alternative Dispute Resolution

Before progressing to contested court proceedings, the court requires separating couples to consider divorce mediation, a constructive way to resolve disputes over finances, property and children without litigation. At this stage, your Almy & Thomas divorce lawyer will explain how mediation works and, if suitable for your case, advise on how any agreements reached can be made legally binding later. Mediation is often a faster and more cost-effective route. However, if one party refuses to engage in this process or an agreement is not made, we can represent you through negotiations or formal court proceedings, when necessary.

Our family law team always prioritises amicable resolutions but will robustly protect your interests when mediation is not possible.

Stage 4: Financial Arrangements and Property Division

One of the most complicated aspects of divorce involves dividing finances and assets. This includes assets ranging from family homes and savings to pensions and business interests. At Almy & Thomas, we identify and value marital assets accurately. We also negotiate maintenance payments and pension sharing orders and draft consent orders that make financial agreements legally binding.

Where agreement isn’t possible, we can represent clients through court applications for financial remedy proceedings. These proceedings aim to ensure a just outcome based on each party’s needs, contributions, and the welfare of any children involved.

We also guide clients through disclosure requirements, ensuring full transparency and compliance with court expectations.

Stage 5: Child Arrangements and Parental Responsibilities

Divorce can be particularly challenging when children are involved. Our family law solicitors prioritise the welfare of children above all else, helping parents create arrangements that are practical and child-centred.

We support clients in reaching agreements about:

●      Where children will live

●      How time is shared between parents

●      Decisions about schooling, health, and religious upbringing.

If disputes arise, we can assist with Child Arrangements Orders, helping to formalise agreements through the Family Court. We always encourage cooperative parenting where possible, but where necessary, our solicitors will represent you with sensitivity and determination to protect your children’s best interests.

Our approach combines empathy with expertise, recognising that every family dynamic is unique.

Stage 6: Responding to Applications and Court Proceedings

Not every divorce follows a straightforward path. Sometimes one party may contest certain aspects, delay responses, or fail to provide financial disclosure. In such situations, your Almy & Thomas divorce lawyer will handle correspondence with the other party’s solicitors, ensure all procedural deadlines are met, and represent you at hearings if your case progresses to court. We take a proactive and strategic approach, aiming to resolve matters efficiently while safeguarding your rights. Our clients value our calm, measured guidance and the reassurance we provide during what can be a highly emotional and uncertain time.

Stage 7: The Conditional Order

Once the court is satisfied that the legal requirements for divorce have been met, it issues a Conditional Order, previously known as a Decree Nisi. This confirms that the court sees no reason why the divorce cannot proceed.

At this stage, your solicitor will:

●      Review the Conditional Order to ensure accuracy.

●      Continue to progress any ongoing financial or child-related negotiations.

●      Advise on the appropriate timing to apply for the Final Order.

It’s important to note that financial settlements are not automatically included within the divorce process, so your lawyer will ensure these are finalised before applying for the Final Order.

The Final Order

The Final Order (previously known as the Decree Absolute) officially ends the marriage, allowing both parties to remarry or enter into a civil partnership if they wish. At this stage, Almy & Thomas confirms the order has been issued, provides certified copies, and offers guidance on updating wills, insurance policies, and property ownership. We also provide follow-up support to ensure all post-divorce matters are properly settled, helping clients move forward with confidence and peace of mind.

Final Thoughts from Almy & Thomas

Divorce is a major life event that few do not plan for and can have a ripple effect beyond you as a couple, but with the right guidance, it does not have to be overwhelming. When you speak with one of our family law solicitors, you’ll have Almy & Thomas by your side, offering trusted family law advice, expert negotiation and practical solutions at every step.

If you are considering separation or ready to begin the process, our friendly team is here to help. Contact Almy & Thomas today to speak to our specialist divorce lawyers and take your first step towards a resolution.